point of fact:

alright...so a few days ago i put up a post asking people to weigh in the following issue:

are girls more likely than boys to form attachments to their sexual partners because they are penetrated?

the answered received were all the same: a resounding BULLSHIT!

i have been asked to weigh in and in doing so i would have to agree. i think that all in all this is pretty much bullshit.

i think that the formation of attachments has nothing to do with either gender or sexual preference.

i can only speak to this personally and my last two sexual...um...encounters disprove this theory.

the second most recent 'partner' i had was completely a one-night stand. we fucked and i sent him packing. it was while i was traveling. it was fun, reeeeeeeeeeeally fun, we hung out the next day with some other people...i had no desire ever to see or touch him again. penetration does not equal attraction.

the last person i was with i was attached to long before we ever had sex. i think i was probably attached to him within an hour of meeting him.

so, apologies for the personal and inarticulate nature of this rebuttal but it's all i can muster right now...

xx.
michelle.